On a last note..

"Never leave the person you love for the person you like
because the person you like, will leave you for the person they love"



is that true?

Relationships are the most complex thing ive really came across in my life.
A guy can be labeled an asshole, jerk , heartless.

But there is always a reason behind that
and weather its good enough to stick around for or not.
is really , up to you.

But i believe that, every asshole will find someone that they can love
the person that will change them , the person that will melt the hard shell off
But with that

I also believe every asshole has a reason to be an asshole
and one of them might be
they have already gave their heart away
and if your at this stage
they have been hurt and hidden the key to their feelings away
and no matter how much they try to want you
no matter the period in when they show you kindness
for that matter of period they tell themselfs to try , give it a chance.
thats all it is.
Because when someone has really loved
its like a wound and every other person that comes along is just a bandaid
they will stop working and once you realize that they can only cover up your true feelings for a period of time.
You lose interest, you start to not care, you dont think about their feelings
because all you can think about is the person you love, and this stranger, trying to step in it
annoying , you can call it.
and that is when, a guy becomes an "an asshole"

I know alot of good men who as amazing candidates they can be.
The fact that they have loved, is a huge red flag.

To me..anyways.

Loves silly


but like ive always believed..the heart wants, what the heart wants.
so you just live with that.




Gnight
Love,Rose.